Caregiver Stories

Third Spaces: A Different Kind of Caregiving

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A few weeks ago, I visited a store that recently opened in my area, InchStone Books, and my first impression was exactly what every independent bookstore hopes to inspire: I wanted to stay. The shelves were thoughtfully curated, the gifts were reading-adjacent in the best possible way, and the chairs looked like they’d been chosen by someone who actually planned for people to sit in them. The atmosphere had that particular quality that’s impossible to manufacture — the feeling that someone who loved books had arranged the place, and that whoever showed up would be welcome here.

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The Weight of Worrying from Far Away

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There is a unique kind of helplessness that comes with caring for someone you cannot physically reach. When someone you love is struggling with illness, aging, or a crisis from a distance, your mind often fills in the gaps that your eyes cannot see. You wonder how they really sounded on the phone. You analyze the pauses in their texts. You ask yourself if they are minimizing what is happening because they don’t want to worry you

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When love isn’t enough:
Recognizing when your aging parents
need a caregiver

Aging Parents

As I have written in other articles, families often gather together for Christmas and the holidays. Adult children may fly in from faraway states, or even countries, to celebrate with loved ones. In our household, one set of elderly parents in their 80s bravely flew in to stay with us in Los Altos from Beijing, and in the other case a trip to Florida to visit 90-year-old Grandma for Christmas was a blessing.

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