This is the way the ladies ride,
Trim and neat, so side to side.
This is the way the farmer rides,
Bumpety bump, with all his pride.
And this is the way the schoolboy rides,
Up and down, arms open wide.
And this is the way the beggar rides,
Heavy and slow, with many sighs.
This playful rhyme offers a snapshot of life’s many riders, each navigating their journey in their own way. The lady, the farmer, the schoolboy, and the beggar all travel differently—each shaped by their circumstances, their burdens, and their perspectives. Beneath its simplicity lies a powerful reminder: while our rides may differ, we are all on the same journey.
The beggar’s heavy, sighing ride may evoke compassion for those carrying visible burdens, while the farmer’s pride or the schoolboy’s carefree energy highlights the joy or resilience others bring to their paths. This rhyme invites us to reflect on our own ride: How do we move through life? What weight do we carry? And do we take the time to notice and honor the unique rhythms of others?
In a divided world, understanding and accepting these differences is essential. When we acknowledge that every rider carries their own story—the visible and the hidden—we can approach one another with greater patience, compassion, and care. Together, our varied journeys weave a collective rhythm, reminding us that connection comes not from riding the same way, but from respecting the humanity in every ride.